Love is a feeling that is very subjective in nature and each individual according to their own needs and choices falls in love with the other person irrespective of their age, gender, race, religion, nationality. But it doesn’t always have a ‘they lived happily ever after ending’. It is a complex issue and it all depends on the two individuals who are a part of the relationship. It’s always better to make your own rules in a relationship rather than going by the rules set by other people and it’s a personal and private affair and one needs to take charge of their live and the relationships that are most important to the person. We have come up with five tips to get your lost love back and create your own love story your way. One should not always start with how you were so much in love with the other person and how much you hope to get back together again. This will further spoil things for you and scare the person away. Never start your conversations with a lot of personal questions. Give the other person the time to share at their own comfort speed. Never mention and complain about somebody you were with or are with after breaking up this person. Avoid saying anything bad about your lost love’s family. While approaching initially and contacting the other person try not calling instead use an email or contact privately through a social media site. If your lost love backs away and is not comfortable for any exchange, don’t rush or push the person. Trust that the person will come back. Expectations lead to disappointment so one should not expect too much too soon. If there is no reply at all, don’t assume. One should follow the steps listed below to win back your lost love.
One should always try and keep the first email light. By choosing this mode of communication one must have thought about the manner in which you want to compose the email. But remember that this is going to take your lost love by surprise. Just a “hi, how are you? Been thinking about you over the years. If you feel like meeting to talking, I’d like to hear from you.”. State the past first, the fun times, but don’t mix the emotions of early romance. Leave it for later. Talk about the in between years: your education and career, how your parents are doing, what you enjoy doing for fun. If you are writing through a social media they might know all of this but it would be nice to mention it all personally. Keep your obsession under wraps and out of sight. Consider writing to a friend first, not to your lost love compulsively. Do not reply within the first few minutes of getting each response, not everyone has time to write every day which also means don’t assume things.
To get your lost love back you need to be mentally on top of your form and not in a state of depression day after day by meeting your friends and family at regular intervals. This is very healthy for the depressed mind, try making new friends. Do something that might boost your self-confidence and self-esteem. And this new-found self-confidence and self-esteem will aid you to get back the love that you lost. This will aid you in granting and seeking forgiveness. Believing that letting go of grudges will never be. Being at peace with oneself will enable you to win back your lost love. Expect a level of awkwardness amongst the two of you when interacting the first time.
Physical attraction is very powerful, despite of what people say, looks does matter. But it’s not just any look that matters, it’s you. One doesn’t t have to look like a movie celeb to win back lost love; but can start cleaning yourself up a little more, choose better clothes, improve your posture, etc. You can also ask the help of one of your trusted and fashionable friends to help you dazzle and find clothes that fit your style and your body. By the time you’re halfway through the makeover, you’ll find yourself armed with tip number two. Gaining more confidence. It’s the most undeniably strong pull. And if you want to learn how to win back lost love, you’re going to need lots of it.
Present Your Ex with A Token of Your Love. But one should remember to not over do and gist something that’s simple and meaningful so that it’s the thought that counts and the price or budget doesn’t overpower the feelings. Spend Time With one another. Give them a reason to miss your company. Invite them out for a drink or a casual lunch – something that will not put them on guard and doesn’t shoo them away. The more you spend time with one another, the more your ex will remember how wonderful the relationship was. Just remember to be at your best behaviour and have a nice time, don’t rush things. Honesty is the Best Policy. If you really want to win back lost love and save your relationship, you need to be sincerely working towards it. Deception is not an option here. After all your hard work, this is where it all boils down to. Whether your ex wants to get back together or not is out of your hands so don’t be dishearten. You’ve definitely changed for the better, but the mind cannot push for what the heart doesn’t want. If your ex really doesn’t want to give your relationship another try, it’s time that you let go and move forward. This will stop you from your own happiness and will hamper your personal growth. Getting your ex back does take considerable effort on your path. But while there’s never a certainty of success, know that whatever you have done to get your act together will definitely come in handy in the long run. Having more confidence in yourself… Knowing how to make yourself look presentable… Acknowledging your emotions… By accomplishing all these things, you’re turning your whole life around. Winning back lost love is just a bonus. Getting your life back on track is what is most important.
Pundit T C Sharma is a renowned astrologer and Vashikaran expert based in New Delhi, India. He has years of experience in dealing various types of love based problems and hence he is the right person to get in touch in order to resolve your love based problems. It is never late too take expert advice, get in touch with him today if you truly love and miss someone.